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Book
Review
Montgomery, Stephen. The Pygmalion
Project: Love and Coercion Among the Types. Vol. One: The Artisan.
Del Mar, CA: Prometheus Nemesis Book Company, 1989.
Drawing on David Keirsey and Marilyn Bates's
book, Please Understand Me: Character and Temperament Types, Montgomery's
thesis states that in many of our closest relationships, we work towards shaping them into
the people we wish they would be. In the beginning, we are attracted to their unique
personality traits, different from our own. But with time, we make them our
"Pygmalion project", and begin to criticize, coerce, reason and even flatter
them towards becoming more like ourselves. Our motives are selfish and sometimes
even unconscious. Inevitably, we push our relationships beyond the others' limits of
tolerance and we become frustrated in our attempts. All Pygmalion projects are
doomed to fail; either our loved ones retailiate and the relationship becomes a
battlefield, or intimacy turns to cold stone.
Montgomery sets out to show how the types in
literature relate to other people and what becomes of their Pygmalion projects.
Using the Keirsey/Bates temperament sorter, in this book he looks at the
"Artisans" the "SP" group, which includes the "Players",
SFPs, which are further sub-divided into "Sensualists", ISFPs, and
"Performers", ESFPs, and divided also into "Operators", STPs, which
are sub-divided into "Instrumentalists", ISTPs and "Promoters", ESTPs. |
SJ The Guardian
(The Doer, Traditionalist)
Stabilizer, Organizer, Care- giver, Consolidator
Mythology: Epimetheus - God of duty and responsibility
(husband of Pandora) |
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- Seeking security - Strives to conserve
-Realistic, thorough, dependable
- Knows and enforces the rules
- Wants control over the "tools"
- Seeks rewards for service rendered
- Values a job well done |
ISTJ - Inspector ESTJ - Supervisor
ESFJ - Provider
ISFJ - Protector
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SP The Artisan
(The Adventurer, Free Spirit)
Trouble-shooter, Performer, Negotiator
Mythology: Dionysus - God of fertility and wine (son of
Zeus) |
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- Seeking sensation - Impulsive, spontaneous, free
- Thrives on action, excitement
- Generous, fraternal
- Cheerful, artistic
- Needs to be free to do things
- Lives in the moment |
ESFP - Promoter ISTP - Crafter
ESFP - Performer, Politician
ISFP - Sensualist, Composer |
NF The Idealist
(The Change Agent, Diplomat, Oracle)
Energizer, Catalyst, Artist
Mythology: Apollo - Giver of prophecy, bearer of truth |
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- Seeking identity - Needs to grow and change
- Acknowledgment of creativity
- Needs to be free to be herself
- Dislikes criticism
- Prefers variety of responsibilities
- Seeks intimate relationships |
INFJ - Counselor ENFJ - Teacher
INFP - Healer
ENFP - Champion |
NT The Seeker
(The Rationalist, Achiever)
Visionary, Architect, Competitor
Mythology: Prometheus - Rebel, stole fire from the gods |
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- Seeking knowledge - Competent, leader, winner
- Wants recognition of ability
- Acts on ideas, problem solver
- Conceptualizing, setting high standards
- Grasping the big picture, underlying principles |
ENTJ - Field Marshall INTJ - Mastermind
ENTP - Inventor
INTP - Architect, Entrepreneur |
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